Friday, June 09, 2006

On Fucking & Making Love

As much as we might try to deny it, there is a difference between the two. As separate elements, they are both pretty great, especially if it's with the right person.

Making Love: is every single romanticized act in the bedroom. It's about the emotion that is shown in every facet of the act. There's lots of touching, kissing, deep soul searching looks. The eye contact is there, your fingers are entwined, you are murmuring loving words in gentle voices. There is a softer edge to the act, it's more one of connection than just an act. It's like your souls are merging and every single contact point is electrified. As Mitesh once eloquently said, "I look into a woman's eyes and feel her femininity. And she feels my masculinity. And if we just hold that gaze we have electricity. Those moments where we can breathe each other in. And my goal, well, my goal is to take her sexual energy and to open her to her beauty. To her heart. To feel her strength and grace."

Royally Fucking: It's all about the passion. This is more fiery, more raw, more basic, more ragged, more instinctual, more primal. It captures more of the passion, the pure unadulterated lust that sears to your very core. Fucking is kinky and over the top. It's the kind that makes you weak at the knees just thinking about it, causes liquid heat to pool in your core, sizzles your skin with just one touch. It's insatiable, it's never completed, it's an exhilarating conflagration of the senses until neither of knows where one is separate from the other. There's lots of dirty talk, lots of commands, lots of role playing. It's demanding, insistent, rough, a constant exchange of give and take. It epitomizes the edge we see in porn videos and the more hardcore sex scenes in movies.

Every woman wants a man that can make love to her. Every man wants a freak that he can fuck. The compromise? Mix it up. If you haven't tried either side of the coin make sure you do. You might even really, really enjoy it.

My advice: Mix it up, spice it up and savor them both.

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